I see your true colors shining through

When a family member was diagnosed with cancer a couple of years ago, someone commented to my mother that this would be when she'd recognize her true friends. In reality, a crisis is when those who are the real deal come to support you. On the flip side, it's also when the less committed friends run for the hills. The truth is that a crisis shows you people's true colors, and it's not always flattering shades.

So what happens when there's a worldwide pandemic? Do people support each other? Do they show compassion and understanding? Remember in early 2020 when we heard the phrase 'we're all in this together' thrown around casually? (Although admittedly, it always made me roll my eyes) Isn't it interesting that we never hear it anymore? Why is that? 

Sadly, the last two years have exposed a great deal about human nature. Even more sadly, none of it surprises me. 

The early days of 2020 are when I first decided that this pandemic would show people's true colors, and I was proven right again and again. I saw judgmental people grow very vocal and aggressive in their opinions, while the pretentious glided by with a more intense sense of superiority and self-righteousness. And ignorance went to a whole new level.

    

Not to suggest it's all negative. It was at this time where I discovered who my tribe was and wasn't. Some people are slowly floating out of my life, while others are making a triumphant return. I've reconnected with some amazing people that I had lost touch with and made some new friends. Those relationships are stronger than they ever were before; these are the people who will continue to be in my life. I would do whatever I can, to help and support my tribe.

It's been interesting. I find it fascinating how many are quick to attack others now. Don't assume everybody should or does agree with you and don't assume those who have a different opinion are wrong. Politicians and even celebrities have even jumped in, trying to pit people against one another. Although, I can't understand why anyone would consider either to be a wise role model. 

I'm not sure where empathy, kindness, and decency went, but I'm sad to see them go. I fear that when people discover where they lacked, it might be too late to mend the broken fences.